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Contact Information |
Donna S. Thomas, Department Director
Caring Choices
30 White Bridge Road
Nashville, TN 37205
Phone: (615) 352-3089
Phone: (800) CARE-002
E-mail: DThomas@cctenn.org
Jan Clifton
Adoption Support and Preservation
30 White Bridge Road
Nashville, TN 37205
Phone: (615) 352-3089
E-mail: JClifton@cctenn.org |
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Deasree Williams
Clarksville Caring Choices
1905 Madison Street
Clarksville, TN 37043
Phone: (931) 645-9969
DWilliams@cctenn.org
Kathy Gupton
Infant Adoption Awareness
30 White Bridge Road
Nashville, TN 37205
Phone: (615) 352-3087
KGupton@cctenn.org
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Hallie Bishop
Pregnancy Counseling & Adoption
30 White Bridge Road
Nashville, TN 37205
Phone: (615) 352-3089
Email:
HBishop@cctenn.org
Laura Tudor Ross, MMFT
Pregnancy Counseling & Adoption
Healthy Marriage Healthy Family Trainer
30 White Bridge Road
Nashville, TN 37205
Phone: (615) 352-3087
E-mail:
LRoss@cctenn.org
Scott Gubala
Administrative Assistant
30 White Bridge Road
Nashville, TN 37205
Phone: (615) 352-3087, ext. 256
Email:
SGubala@cctenn.org
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| Programs and Services |
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Domestic Adoption | International Adoption | Pregnancy Counseling
Services
Adoptive Homes Recruitment| Understanding Infant Adoption
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| Adoption Support &
Preservation | Volunteer Opportunities |
| DOMESTIC ADOPTION |
Caring Choices is a state-licensed adoption agency serving all races and religions. We place Caucasian and minority race children as well as infants with special medical needs. We also assist with many independent placements. A sliding scale helps to make adoption affordable for virtually all qualified adoptive parents. Our services are offered regardless of religious affiliation.
Adoption is a three-step process. The first step is to submit an application. The next step is the home study, a state-mandated legal requirement in all adoption placements. Home studies are an educational process for prospective adoptive parents as well as a way to ensure adequate emotional, financial, and physical resources are in place. The last step is placement and support. For Caucasian infants without special needs, the wait may be lengthy. For minority and bi-racial infants, the wait is often short.
In the domestic infant adoption program Catholic Charities has a few minimal requirements. We prefer that couples be married a minimum of three years and to have experienced infertility for a period of one year or more. The maximum age to adopt an infant is age 45, a median age between a couple, and a couple cannot have more than one child already in the home. In the case of special needs or minority adoptions the requirements of infertility and the limit of children need not be met. Birthparents choose couples from profiles that they have put together. Our adoptions have varying levels of openness from communication through the agency with letters and pictures to regular, direct contact between the birthparents and the adoptive parents. Our agency is always in need of minority race families.
Information meetings are held bimonthly for inquiring families. We also offer several support groups for waiting families, as well as for those who already have received a placement. In addition, we network with other agencies to provide an annual educational conference.
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For
Answers To Frequently Asked Questions: Domestic Adoption
CLICK HERE
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Meet some of our families
waiting to adopt Below
are pictures and brief introductions to some of the families waiting
to adopt through Catholic Charities. Please click on the
families name for more information about that family.
Tim and Andrea

First of all we
would like to tell you how thankful we are that, no matter if you
place your child with a waiting family like ours or decide to raise
the baby yourself; you are giving him/her life. That is an amazing
gift that not everyone would choose so thank you from the bottom of
our hearts.....
John and Jana
At this time in your
life you have so many questions. We would like to share some details
of our lives and hope it helps you find answers. Our names are Jana
& John. We
started our family in 2000. Our dreams were....
Brandie and Doug

Hello! My name
is Brandie. I have a wonderful and loving husband whose name is
Doug. I would first like to express my gratitude for you taking the
time to read our letter and hopefully by the end you will have a
better understanding of who we are....
Greg and Cindy

First, we want to thank you for
considering adoption. While we cannot fully know what you are
going through, we recognize your strength and courage. Let us
being by telling you a little bit about ourselves. Greg and I
have been married for.......
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INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION
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International adoption is a wonderful way to build or add to your family. There are many possibilities regarding countries and ages of children. The most popular countries are Russia, China and South Korea, but other countries include Kazakhstan, Ukraine, Guatemala, Bulgaria and many more. If international adoption is of interest to you, give us a call to find out more information. Our experienced staff can help guide you through the home study process required in the United States, various legalities as well as helping you complete a dossier.
Each country and placing agency determines its own eligibility requirements. Catholic Charities can assist you with information to help you find a country and agency to meet your needs. We can then complete a home study that will meet the requirements for an international adoption. We can also provide information on working with INS (Immigration and Naturalization Service). Other services include educational seminars, support groups for waiting families and families that have received placements. There are also many cultural educational opportunities for children and parents on a monthly basis.
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PREGNANCY COUNSELING SERVICES |
Unplanned pregnancy can create pressure, confusion, anxiety, and a sense of urgency. Caring Choices offers free, confidential pregnancy counseling for you and your family to help make informed, unpressured decisions. We also have an adoption program, and offer free pregnancy tests and bilingual
(Español) services.
Questions about what to say, whom to tell, what to do about school, medical care, living arrangements, the father of your baby, and other concerns can seem to be overwhelming. Our professional staff is here to help you by answering questions, giving you tips and advice on how to handle each aspect of your situation and to be a support for you throughout your pregnancy and after your child is born.
Individual and group counseling for you and your parents, and post-natal services are all available free of charge. If you need help with medical care or living arrangements, Caring Choices is ready to provide direct assistance and referrals. Limited material assistance such as diapers, clothes and formula are available.
If the choice for adoption is made, the staff can help you through the decision making process, giving you emotional support and helping to ensure that all of your wishes and desires for your child are met. Caring Choices offers open adoptions, which means you may select the adoptive parents and have contact with them either with pictures and letters through the agency or directly between you and the family, whichever you choose. Care is taken to meet all legal requirements in the process and adoptive parents are carefully screened to provide a secure and loving home for your child.
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For
Answers To Frequently Asked Questions: Birthparents
CLICK HERE
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A Birthmother's Testimonial
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At 19, Erica's life was turned upside down when she found out she was pregnant. Her boyfriend took two weeks before they were to be married. Her parents did not want to take her in because they felt it would bring shame to the family. She was without a place to live, without a job, without a car.
According to Erica, when she met her counselor with Catholic Charities for the first time, she was immediately given a new sense of direction. Her counselor helped her find a place to stay until the baby was born, introduced her to other young women with similar experiences, and they discussed loving options for her baby.
Erica chose adoption for her unborn child and was given the full power of selecting the family she felt would be best. After meeting the family she chose a couple of times, Erica knew they were perfect. "In addition to their wonderful personalities, they had already adopted and enjoy a great relationship with their adopted child's birthmother," she said. This reinforced to Erica that a healthy, "open" adoption is possible.
"Giving my little angel for adoption was the hardest thing I've ever done," says Erica. "But knowing that the family will let me be a part of their lives has made it easier to move on."
Now, almost two years later, Erica has completed her GED, has a job, a place of her own, and a car. Her daughter, Meredith, is thriving in a loving family. Erica knows without a doubt that she made the best, most loving choice she could for her daughter. She also states that she couldn't have done so without the support of Caring Choices.
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ADOPTIVE HOMES RECRUITMENT
recruitment of adoptive homes for special needs children |
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Every day a child is in custody is a day of
childhood lost. In the state of Tennessee, there are hundreds of
unclaimed children with no prospect of a forever family. Our
calling is to find families willing to open their hearts and homes
to one of these children. Only then can they say, “I am home for
good.”
These children, often teenagers or a part of
sibling groups, face a life without the securities that many of us
take for granted, without a family, without a place to call home.
In response to these insecurities, many of these youth respond with
anger and frustration. What they need more than anything is family
and home to call their own.
We will walk you through the challenges and
joys of the adoption process. Our Adoption Support and Preservation
program- ASAP- will give you the tools to overcome the obstacles
that you will face in taking these children into your home.
Meet some of the children waiting for their
forever family by viewing their
In
My Own Words video
Can you be the
promise of family for one of these children? Call Russell
Massey at (615) 352-3087 x 295.
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For Answers To
Frequently Asked Questions: Recruitment
CLICK HERE
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UNDERSTANDING INFANT ADOPTION

The curriculum developed by the Infant
Adoption Training Initiative is designed to train health care
professionals how to provide adoption information and referral to
pregnant women. The training provides participants with
opportunities for self-reflection and open discussion of issues
facing women with unplanned pregnancies, as well as the different
service providers available in their areas. Understanding the
different resources available for pregnancy counseling and adoption
services is a key characteristic necessary to make informed
referrals consistent with client/patient needs and
preferences.
www.adoptionatwork.org
For more information contact Kathy
Gupton at (615) 352-3087 or
KGupton@cctenn.org . |
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ADOPTION
SUPPORT AND
PRESERVATION |
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Adoption Support and Preservation (ASAP)?
ASAP is designed to create and maintain
a seamless statewide system of pre- and post-adoption services in
Tennessee. ASAP is an innovative program that supports children and
families as they create and maintain connections and access services
that support permanency. ASAP is working to develop the capacity of
communities across Tennessee to better nurture their adoptive
families.
ASAP seeks to increase the
availability and accessibility of adoption support services in
Tennessee, and to decrease the incidence of disrupted or dissolved
adoptions. Motivated by the needs of families and children in all
stages of the adoptive process, ASAP offers a comprehensive and
coordinated continuum of services.
ASAP is a collaborative project of
Harmony Adoptions of East Tennessee, Catholic Charities of Middle
Tennessee, and AGAPE Child and Family Services of West Tennessee.
ASAP is partnered with the Department of Children's Services
for the cooperative implementation and further development of our
program.
How Can Families Become Part of
ASAP?
Families may contact the ASAP hotline
to get started at (888) 848-ASAP (2727), or they may fill out a Request for
Service form online at the ASAP website, www.TNASAP.org
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Referring professionals are encouraged to
contact ASAP with any questions and may refer families for ASAP
services by submitting a Request For Service Form online, or by
contacting ASAP at (888) 848-ASAP (2727) or in Nashville at (615) 352-3087.
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VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES |
Flexible hours
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Monday - Friday 8 AM - 4:30 PM
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2 hour shifts - all day
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whatever works with your schedule
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some weekend or evening events
Volunteer Duties
Special Volunteer Opportunities
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manning booth at community service events
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assisting with special events
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helping with annual fundraiser
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picking up large donations
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